Not exposing to humiliate but inviting to return. This is the mysterious logic of the Gospel when betrayal seems to have the upper hand. True Christian meditations help us see this. Augustine, for example, reads woe not as a judgment but as the cry of a heart that suffers for man separating himself from life. Wisdom teaches that pointing out the traitor is not meant to shame but to heal, just as a doctor touches a wound to nurse it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The question Is it me works both ways. It is humble self-examination and at the same time an exhortation to open one's own heart to light. Whoever asks in this way steps out of the false security of moral rightness and chooses truth that liberates. The sadness that can then arise is not despair but salutary sadness, the salutaris tristitia of which 2 Corinthians 7 verse 10 speaks. It cuts loose what is dead and makes room for new beginnings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
On the night of the betrayal, Christ remains at the table. He breaks bread and excludes no one, not even the betrayer. We call this in theology synkatabasis, the Divine condescension to human weakness. God descends to where we really are, not where we would like to appear. This is true shepherd's love, staying when the going gets tough, serving when the going gets nowhere, being faithful where the other falters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here unfolds a maxim that the true Christ follower already understood. Truth without love is not Christian truth. Love without truth becomes a lie. He who strikes with truth wounds. He who loves without speaking true, forsakes. The Gospel chooses the narrow way. Truth in love, love in truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What does this mean for us today, in a time of swift judgments, public humiliation and zealous cancel culture. The Last Supper teaches that community is not saved by those who cry the loudest, but by those who stay put, listen and break what they have. The Christian way is not the way of denial or of harsh reckoning. It is the way of the redeeming word and of concrete acts of mercy. Sometimes that means drawing a line. More often it means seeking the conversation, reaching out, daring to ask or grant forgiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The spiritual exercise is simple and demanding. Ask the question Am I it every time judgment approaches your lips. Let in the salutary sadness when you discover your own double tongue. Seek the table even when you are ashamed. Share bread with those you distrust. Thus the place of betrayal becomes the place of grace, the wound a source of water.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The hope of the Gospel is not that there will be no more betrayal. The hope is that faithfulness will be stronger than betrayal. That love will have the last word. That truth and love, held together, lift people up rather than break them. Those who live this way carry something of the light that the night cannot extinguish. And it is precisely in this that the truth of the loving God shines.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Not expose to humiliate but invite to return. Such is the mysterious logic of the...","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3809,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[22,61],"class_list":["post-3808","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-spiritualiteit","tag-kowchecking","tag-spiritualiteit","cs-entry","cs-video-wrap"],"yoast_head":"\n